Cheryl and I will be flying back to the States on Sunday, December 22. We will leave Romania on December 19 and spend a few days in Budapest prior to our departure. A few highlights in Budapest will be Thursday evening at the Hungarian State Opera House seeing The Nutcracker and Friday evening with our London friends Lubos and Daniela Brvenik. The Brvenik's son Thomas enrolled at Hope College in the fall of 2012 and they stayed with us for three weeks while getting him settled. We first met Lubos and Daniela while attending All Soul's Church in London during one of our London May term excursions. Daniela's family is from Slovakia, so they will make a detour to Budapest on their way to celebrate Christmas with her family.
| Silvia and John (Ioan) |
| Audriana and Ina |
| Cheryl's birthday cake |
| Carmen (right) with her sister and niece |
| The Veduva family - Evi, Lois, Sebastian |
We spent an evening at the Veduva house sharing a meal and having a wonderful discussion that spanned many different topics. I realize how much I miss these conversations as they occur on a regular basis with my colleagues and students at Hope. One of the great downsides to the financial situation at Emanuel is that professors need to have at least two jobs in order to support themselves and their families. This requires them to be away from campus most of the week, and when they are on campus, they are either teaching or behind closed doors trying to do research/writing. I can see how the lack of collegiality impacts the quality of the program, the vitality of the teaching, and the student/faculty interactions.
| Daria and Raelene |
Every Tuesday and Thursday, I get to spend 3 hours at Hospice Emanuel. They have a staff of 5 nurses, 1 social worker, 1 psychologist, 1 doctor, 1 pharmacy tech/insurance expert, 1 in development, 1 receptionist/accountant and a director. That makes 12 staff, and they do amazing things with little resources. Raelene comes with me frequently. She helps Hospice Emanuel with fundraising, child life projects and whatever needs to be done. Raelene is an American that is married to a Romanian pastor/professor here at the University. She has four delightful children that we have a lot of fun with. Daria is the psychologist at Hospice. She is my go to person to let me know what needs to be done that day. I am not working as a nurse (do not have a license or work visa) but I enjoy being in the midst of the medical staff. Usually I begin my time making medication packages, taking a 500 pill bottle and packaging it into envelopes of 30 or whatever number is needed for the medication. I also divide up donated adult diapers ( :) new) into sizes and bag them up. Trying out homemade Romanian dishes from the nurses and the patients is another task I do. :) However I can help, that is what I do. I take a Taxi each way (about $3.50 one way) I have had some very interesting Taxi rides, and drivers. Hospice Emanuel has an inpatient/day center in the construction phase. What a blessing that will be when it is done because much time is spent fundraising.
We hope this gives you a sense of the people who have surrounded us in the past three months. At some future post we will tell you a little about Ciprian and Ramona, Corneliu and Ramona, Emanuel and Nadia, Monika, Ileana, Travis and Becky (and their two children who think of us as Papi and Nani), and perhaps a few we have yet to meet. We hope to see many of you in person while we are back in Holland so our next post can be face-face.
Pace,
Cheryl & Tom


